guys and some special pics...

well...
this is addressed at the girls.. maybe at the guys too..
but i have some question.. maybe you can give me advise

well... my bf now recently hanged some picture.. a poster at the wall.. above the bed..
with some girl kinda sexy looking... you know.. with big boobs and stuff.. x.x
and also on his pc/laptop.. always having some sexy girls in the desktop...
and there are also/still some folders on there named "hentai" and "porn"..... as well as bookmarks on firefox...

should i ... worry about that? x.x

kiri u just need to turn on sex mode and screw the living daylights out of him XD

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umm.. im serious... about that...

AiKirikaX wrote:well...
this is addressed at the girls.. maybe at the guys too..
but i have some question.. maybe you can give me advise

well... my bf now recently hanged some picture.. a poster at the wall.. above the bed..
with some girl kinda sexy looking... you know.. with big boobs and stuff.. x.x
and also on his pc/laptop.. always having some sexy girls in the desktop...
and there are also/still some folders on there named "hentai" and "porn"..... as well as bookmarks on firefox...

should i ... worry about that? x.x

Take it from me, you really don't have anything to worry about o.o He's a guy so of course he'll be drawn to that stuff, now if you say actual girls at his house in his room and stuff like that then you should worry xD If you are actually offended by him looking at other girls then you can always talk to him about it...

well, it is imposible for a man, to not think on "sex" and "porn", but here I can give you 3 advices.

1.- never, ever jump into conclusions, maybe he only get money to buy what he always wants and the pron was there before he was your boyfriend. or anything. As a man i am sure that most of us, have in our notebooks once a wallpaper with a beatifull girl.. (sometimes i set Alizee in my desktop XD), so again, do not jump into early conlcusions and try to read and understand all the "signs" that could mean diferent things.. not always that he will turn into a porn-maniac (as Jiraya)

2.-also never, ever, tell him directly that you found his porn, 'cause as a man you feel like busted and like in a interrogation by FBI (well is how I see it); first is better to pretend that you don't know anything, and try to get the confession from him or ask him if he still look at porn, here you will have two answers, "yes or not" If he says yes, you can say that porn is not good as his girlfriend (if you already are in that kind of relation) or tell him that you think porn is gros, and if it is not.. well try to force him to tell the true, and get from him an answer.

3.-think about how your relation is going, because this could mean "that he is expecting a little more", and he don not want to force you, so he try to satisfy his desires in his ownway, or only is that he start to like more "porn".

Hope something can help you, and remember that speaking is really important in relarionships

Ciao..

lol rionz.. youre a little too naive on this one XD

he is my bf and im his gf...
and sure he gets this "a little more"
thats why.. why does he need those pics ?
i know those porn on his pc is from the time before we got together..
and he also knows that i know that it is there.. cause we went through his folders while doing stuff... i said something like "ahem... >.> what do you need those for... when you have me?" .. lol
i dont know if you looks at it at all... or not...

there are no other real girls but me...
and when im at his home.. we spend almost the whole time in bed XD

XDDDD, well one do not always know how the relationships are...


and also when i mean "a little more" is not the "usual stuff", i mean "something more "hardcore", that is why, is important to know what kind of porn does he look at. because, maybe he has some fetish on anime girls (and cosplay could be the answer), or maybe a fetish on something more rotten.

so.. if that is the case, well, i suggest you tell him your worries, as i have already said, Speaking is basic in a relationship.

lol... anime that is... XD

I have seen pic of you cosplying (in the forum) so there will be no problem then.. sure he only have that anime-girl-fetish...

Have you ever heard the song form "Aveneu Q", "the internet is for porn"?, that is a good example how things are in modern days.... XD

well, knowing all that, i think is not a big deal... only is a normal man..

Ciao..

dont know what to say to your problem kiri lol

then dont spam nomad XD


lol rionz...
i think youre right.. only a normal man...

but now really.. i actually wanted some female opinions... are there any girls in here?? x.x